Thursday, 24 May 2018

P Power of Positive Faith

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TimeI am a high achiever. I am all about achieving one thing and moving on to the next. I get a rush out of being able to check another goal accomplished off my list.  If you are the same, you already know that people like us want things done and they want them done now.  We tend to think that the next thing is waiting to be conquered and we are the ones to conquer.  People like us can be high strung and just can't sit still. We are BIG Picture people continually developing a strategy for the next thing. Time is money, so don't we don't believe in wasting time! 2017 is behind us and onward and upward in 2018.

Hold on though!  There is a problem with being like us. We can get easily frustrated; especially if things are moving too slow. When I was young, that meant bad news for those around me. Let's just say, I wasn't very patient. Now that I am older, I am a lot better. When frustration sets in, I try not to talk much. Maybe I am this way because of how extreme I behaved in my younger days. Anyway, something happened recently, and I realized just how much I have changed.

If you have read anything I have written in the past, you know that I believe in Jesus. You also know that I think when He said in John 14:16 "I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Helper, to be with you forever" that He meant it. I believe in the power of the Holy Spirit to "lead and guide us."  For me, that scripture means He will help when I feel stressed, frustrated, overwhelmed, ticked off, confused, unsettled or whatever destructive emotion I may experience. God already knows what I need; I just need to give my feelings to Him by releasing them to the Holy Spirit.

When I mention the name, DMV, many of you have the same images come to mind as I do; inefficient, slow, uncaring, paper-pushers, unproductive and the rudest people Prayeryou can meet!  Maybe that's why my husband had a problem when he had to deal with them on my behalf.  He was at the DMV all day beginning at 745 that morning. He came home around 3pm. I came home after him, and  when I walked in and said "Hello Darling" and got very little response, I should have guessed something was wrong.  I went to the kitchen to make some food and yelled, "do you want something to eat?" "No," he replied. I looked and realized I was talking, and he was not talking because he was on the phone.  I sat down at the table and began to eat. When he finally got off the phone, he told me what happened at the DMV. He looked beat! Well, he didn't get done what I needed. He had all my paperwork and handed it to me and said, "you need to ...."  Well, ok, but I wasn't happy. After I finished eating, I sat down quietly and began making call after call, from DMV in California to Jaguar USA to Jaguar in Dallas to DMV Headquarters in Sacramento to finally getting the right person that took care of my situation.  Along the way, I heard myself praying and asking the Holy Spirit to keep me calm and patient. He did.  I had finally achieved my goal without blowing up. But it wasn't over. The next day at the local DMV would be the greatest challenge for the Holy Spirit and me. 

Well, he didn't get done what I needed and deep inside, I was not happy about that. I didn't say anything though. I saw all my paperwork in his hands and he handed it to me and said, "you need to ....".  I wasn't happy. After I finished eating, I sat down quietly and began making call after call, from DMV in California to Jaguar USA to Jaguar in Dallas to DMV Headquarters in Sacramento to finally get the right person on the line who took care of my situation.  Along the way, I heard myself praying and asking the Holy Spirit to keep me calm and patient. He did.  I had finally achieved my goal without blowing up. But it wasn't over. The next day at the local DMV would be the greatest challenge for the Holy Spirit and me. 

I had to get up early to go to a meeting.  I dressed and got out on highway 57 to sit in the morning parking lot of traffic. My goodness, I thought everyone would be on vacation; it is the week before Christmas. At least the traffic was moving. I got to my meeting, we finished up around 1115, and I headed over to DMV without an appointment. I got there, and to my amazement, there were very little people outside (that's a good sign). I went to the "do not have appointment line" that is usually out the door but was short today. I stood behind a guy that was pleasant, and we talked about our experiences. We were three and four in line! Well, it was his time, I wished him luck, and he did the same. I got to the window, no problem, got my waiting ticket and went to sit down. The entire time I sat there waiting, I prayed "Lord, please make my path straight." When I was called about an hour later, I walked up to the window, explained my situation, gave the man my papers, he processed them and "BOOM!" I was done! No frustration, no confusion, no annoying conversation.

You may say "so what?" I tell you "so what" If 2017 did not end up as you had hoped, don’t fret. Don’t be so hard on yourself or on others and for goodness sake, don’t give up. Enter the New Year with a different approach. Enter it expecting to be more efficient, yet accept that it’s okay if you fall short. Enter it expecting to accomplish your goals; but don’t denigrate yourself if you miss the mark. Enter it trusting God and thinking that if you do your part and allow Him to do His in your life, that’s good enough.  If things work out the way you expect, that’s wonderful, but if they don’t work out the way you expect, that’s okay too. Start the year with prayer.  Tell yourself now that you will approach your situations with a better attitude. Think about my situation and how I could have allowed the various phone calls to get me anxious and mad. I had to be intentional in relying on the Holy Spirit to guide me; to keep me from wanting to rush and become impatient.

I know that prayer changes things, but more importantly, prayer and the Holy Spirit changes us. As you enter 2018, let the Holy Spirit lead.

Columnist: LaSharnda Beckwith

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Dr. LaSharnda Beckwith, PhD, MBAA, MA, BPS, is an Empowerment Advocate, personal life coach, motivational speaker & leadership expert. She knows that in order for anyone to experience success in their personal or professional lives, there must be a fundamental change in attitude. One cannot be or think negatively and expect positive results. In addition, she loves to interact where she can encourage, enable, empower and energize others.  She is a retired executive of more than 26 years with the Army & Air Force Exchange Service. She retired as Vice President of Eastern Operations. She is currently a Professor in the School of Management at Texas Woman’s University. She is an author and talk show host. Her new book, When You're Happy With You focuses on helping others find value, build self confidence, self-esteem and confront issues that may be holding them back and is currently available online through Xulonpress.com/bookstore, Amazon.com and BarnesandNoble.com.  Her radio talk show “Living Happy Every Day with Dr. LaSharnda” can be heard on www.LATalkradio.com, channel 1.

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