Sunday, 29 March 2020

P Power of Positive Faith

A New Year. There Was a Lesson in the Challenge

When I hear someone try to tell me that a challenge I am facing will help me grow, I want to say hogwash! However, at my age, I can honestly say that many of my challenges have equipped me for greater things.  I know, I know, you might say that I am only saying that because I haven't faced what you are facing. That may be the case, but you never know what people go through. We don't really share our deepest troubles on social media. At least I don't.

Anyway, I would like to share a little about what I have endured over the last year and point out along the way that repeated challenges can get to any of us. Trust me, they have gotten to me.  As for me, however, I choose to move beyond them. I learned long ago not to hold onto stuff.  If you allow your challenges to get the best of you, you will most assuredly become beaten down, you may get despondent and decide to check out altogether. Counter your challenges. Find joy elsewhere, and I don' mean in a bottle of drugs either. Find it in a walk, a run, with an animal, at a spa. Just find it.

I find joy in Christmas. The reason I love Christmas so much isn't because of presents; it is in the people I get to share life with. The hustle and bustle of Christmas can be exhausting, but I always feel joy this time of year.  This past year has been one of the most challenging I have experienced in a very long time.  Things I thought I was done with years ago, visited me again but in grand design this year. I had not felt the sting of a person trying to demoralize and marginalize me in such a long time, that to experience it at this stage in life really shook me.  I had to take stock of my life over and over again. I kept telling myself, "You must be crazy. You don't need this. Why are you subjecting yourself to this?"  I would ask God repeatedly if I was doing the right thing by remaining quiet, ignoring the actions of others, and staying the course. When I was about to throw in the towel, I would get an impression from God that I was supposed to stay the course. What I heard from God was this:  "LaSharnda, don't give up. I didn't make you that way. Besides, trust me. I am teaching you a lesson.  There is always a lesson in the challenge." So I said, "Ok, Lord."

At one point during the year, I felt that I was at my wit's end.  I was on my morning run, suddenly, a scripture began to play in my head over again.  The scripture was Isaiah 43: 19 "See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland." Well, of course, I felt God was about to break the cycle I had been experiencing. I waited and waited, and nothing happened. I got discouraged again.  Too many things gave me hope throughout the year, only to get my expectations up and dashed back.  To this day, I still do not know what God is doing in my life, but what I do know is that I am a different person today than I was a year ago. I know that I have learned some powerful lessons through my challenges.

Challenges can cause flight or fight, and even the strongest among us can get to the point of flight.  Don't feel bad when you finally throw your hands up and walk away, but before you do, I want you to ask yourself, "What lesson am I supposed to learn in this?"  Take your time, pray, trust God, and trust yourself. Look at the challenge and determine what brought it on and decide what you can do about it.  You always have a choice; you don't have to put up with anything. However, you may learn to trust God more and rely on yourself less.

If you decide to stay the course, you may find that He is equipping you for something far more significant and even better than what you had before. The skills you develop during the challenges are skills you will take with you to the next level. You may also find that you are stronger, tougher, and brighter than you thought. Learn from the past and look to the future.  God is about to do a new thing. Can’t you see it?

Columnist: LaSharnda Beckwith

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Dr. LaSharnda Beckwith, PhD, MBAA, MA, BPS, is an Empowerment Advocate, personal life coach, motivational speaker & leadership expert. She knows that in order for anyone to experience success in their personal or professional lives, there must be a fundamental change in attitude. One cannot be or think negatively and expect positive results. In addition, she loves to interact where she can encourage, enable, empower and energize others.  She is a retired executive of more than 26 years with the Army & Air Force Exchange Service. She retired as Vice President of Eastern Operations. She is currently a Professor in the School of Management at Texas Woman’s University. She is an author and talk show host. Her new book, When You're Happy With You focuses on helping others find value, build self confidence, self-esteem and confront issues that may be holding them back and is currently available online through Xulonpress.com/bookstore, Amazon.com and BarnesandNoble.com.  Her radio talk show “Living Happy Every Day with Dr. LaSharnda” can be heard on www.LATalkradio.com, channel 1.

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